DISCLAIMER: I am not a licensed dog trainer or expert and am only sharing information I learned from reading this book. Please consult a licensed pet trainer/expert for any specific questions you have with your dog.

As a dog parent, just reading “The Secret Language of Dogs: Unlocking the Canine Mind for a Happier Pet” by Victoria Stilwell made me feel closer to my dog. This book is a must-read for any dog owner who wants to understand their furry friend on a deeper level and build a stronger bond.

Victoria Stilwell is a world-renowned dog trainer and behavior expert who has been featured on TV shows like “It’s Me or the Dog.” In “The Secret Language of Dogs,” she shares her insights into how dogs think and communicate, and provides practical tips for improving your relationship with your pet.

Key takeaways from the book include:

Dogs are incredibly social animals who thrive on human interaction. “Dogs want to be with us, learn from us, and make us happy,” says Stilwell.
Communication is key to a happy and healthy relationship with your dog. “Understanding what your dog is trying to tell you can prevent problems, increase safety, and enhance the joy of being with your pet,” Stilwell writes.
Positive reinforcement is the most effective training technique. “The use of force and punishment can damage your relationship with your dog, damage the dog’s trust in you, and cause your dog to become aggressive,” Stilwell warns.
Dogs have unique personalities and individual needs, just like people. “Knowing your dog’s personality can help you provide the right kind of training, exercise, and attention to keep them happy and healthy,” Stilwell explains.
Exercise and mental stimulation are essential for a dog’s well-being. “Dogs need both physical exercise and mental stimulation to be happy and healthy,” Stilwell advises.

The book also includes helpful resources like training tips, behavior guides, and a glossary of dog-related terms.

As a dog parent myself, my personal best advice is to prioritize communication and positive reinforcement in your relationship with your dog. Spend time getting to know their personality and needs, and tailor your training and attention to those needs.

FAQ:

What is the Secret Language of Dogs? The Secret Language of Dogs is how dogs communicate with their owners and other dogs. This includes body language, vocalizations, and behavior.
What is positive reinforcement? It’s a training technique that involves rewarding your dog for good behavior rather than punishing them for bad behavior. This can include treats, praise, and play.
How do I know what kind of exercise my dog needs? The type and amount of exercise your dog needs depends on their breed, age, and energy level. Consult with your veterinarian to come up with the best exercise plan for your pup.
Can I train an older dog? Yes, older dogs can be trained. It just might take longer and require more patience and consistency than training a puppy.
What should I do if my dog is exhibiting problem behavior? Consult a professional dog trainer or behaviorist to figure out the root cause of the behavior and create a plan to address it. Avoid punishment-based training techniques—these can actually make the behavior worse.